Kindness

It’s ok to be fed up.
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And to want more than what’s on the table.
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It’s ok to not be happy with the way things are.
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To have high standards.
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To be pissed at the friends and family that you’ve supported countless times but they’re never there for you when you need it.
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Or resentful at your co-workers or your partner for not pulling their weight and you’re stuck (yet again) picking up the slack.
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It’s ok to admit that you missed the signs and things and people aren’t what and who you initially though they were.
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And to admit that you have no idea what the hell you’re doing and you’re completely winging it hoping shit does’t hit the fan too bad.
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See, we live in this culture where where we’re taught to be kind.
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But since when does being kind mean dishonoring your feelings, wants and needs?
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It doesn’t.
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Being kind doesn’t mean not speaking your truth.
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Being kind doesn’t mean to sacrifice what’s on your own heart and soul for someone else. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
On the contrary.
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To be kind is to honor what is.


Xx,

Coach Reita



 
  Hi, it's Reita and I'm here to support you through the transformation of up-leveling your confidence taking your life back and living life on your terms. I provide Personalized One-On-One Coaching and Reiki for women ready to find freedom from overwhelm and gain a deeper connection in your life.

Hi, it's Reita and I'm here to support you through the transformation of up-leveling your confidence taking your life back and living life on your terms. I provide Personalized One-On-One Coaching and Reiki for women ready to find freedom from overwhelm and gain a deeper connection in your life.


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